We received the opportunity to attend this year’s circus at the Denver Coliseum themed Dragons and it was a good show. I have to say, last year’s show (which I wrote about here) kept the girls more entertained because they had an opportunity to burn off a lot of steam before the show – we got there early enough last year because of the animal open house, a box lunch by Feld Inc., and then just enough time for the pre-show fun.
This year, we barely made it for the pre-show fun and then had only 10 minutes before the pre-show fun ended. In any case, the girls danced a bit and then wanted to dance some more- so they danced in their chairs. As usual, the most captivating part for my kiddos was not the dare-devil acts but the animals, and the clowns. They loved the tigers, lions, horses, elephants, and … did I mention, clowns?
We had a great time and the girls were squirmy enough that we had to leave at intermission not to mention it was past our Kindergartener’s bedtime- she reminded us several times that she needed to go to sleep.
In any case, the first act was almost 1 hour and 15 minutes! The acrobatics, the clowns, the animals, and the amazing feats of all the performers kept us engaged and on our toes. There were a few scary moments with the Lions and Tigers… well, not for us but for the trainer. There was also an acrobat act with two women who hung from their hair – not kidding. The show gets it name for the theme- Dragons and the Kung Fu trained artists were incredible! They even jumped through fire blindfolded. Whew! That was scary. The guys balancing motorcycles and turning them around on a thin tight rope… whew! That was death defying. The Show is in Denver, at the Coliseum from September 27 through October 7. Go to the link and follow the instructions for discount tickets! Enter TFFA at checkout for $4 off*
I had the experience of being on the other side of political calls recently when I volunteered to make phone calls for Organizing for America. There was no fundraising when I called but simply, calling from a list supplied to me to ask some simple questions and see if the women voters on my list were (1) supporting our current President for the election and (2) if they were, would they be interested in registering voters or volunteering like me? Also, if they were not supporting him, what could I answer for them to help them make up their minds and especially if they were undecided. I had a script, some FAQs, some information, and then the list of phone numbers with some notes to make as I went down the list.
Before this experience, I was the one who would dodge phone calls from numbers I did not recognize, and the person who really got crabby at people calling for research or conducting polls. I would say, “please take me off your list and stop calling.” Now, after being on the other end of those calls – well, not market research but just political calls, I have a whole new view point on how to treat those poor saps on the other end even if they are not from your political party nor support your candidate. I kinda have, what you would call, new rules:
New Rule #1: Answer! There is a reason why they keep calling over and over and over again. Here is how it worked when I did it. I had a list and if no one answered at a particular number, I marked the box that said NOT HOME. That means to the next guy or gal who gets the list, “try and try again til you get them at home.” So, if you are in a position where you can answer, do it. If you keep dodging, they will keep calling.
New Rule #2: Be nice! Don’t hang up the minute they say “hello or Is ___ available?” If you are busy or not able to talk simply state nicely, “I am really not able to talk right now- can you call me later” or … “I appreciate your call but I really do not want to be on this call list – can you put me on the do not call list please?” Trust me, they will. We had a box to check that read “Wants to NOT be called again”. And it is okay to say this but please be nice. Being rude to someone who is a volunteer or just doing their jobs to feed their own families can bring bad karma. Trust me.
New Rule #3: Talk to me! If a live person (rather than a computerized robotic recording) is talking with you, the least you can do is talk with them for a few seconds. They are again, volunteers or in the case of telemarketing, doing their jobs. Listen, respond, and then after the call ends you can ask them to remove you if you don’t want unwanted calls. If it is very late, ask them to not call your house after ___pm or before ___am, trust me, they are writing down what you say! And it will be honored. We had a lot of options of what to write for individuals who responded a certain way.
New Rule #4: Keep it short and polite! If a live person calls you from the political party or candidate you do not support, you can say so but there is no reason to use foul language, attack the poor volunteer on the line or say negative things. While it is fun to talk with people about political issues (for me anyway), this is not someone you know and engaging may not be the way to go. There are ways to discuss issues without being rude, mean or foul just because someone from the opposition party is calling you. Be polite, tell the truth, and tell them why. Then, end it and tell them to please remove your number because you have made your decision. That is it. But, remember the guy or gal who is talking with you is a volunteer or this is their job and they may not like it but they do it anyway because they believe in their side of the issues – you are NOT going to change their minds. They are the volunteer and you’re sitting on your couch.
New Rule #5: Bottom line is do unto others as you’d want done unto you! Imagine yourself on the other end of the line when you answer and before you respond or say anything, think to yourself, what if I were on the other end of the line? How would I want people to treat me and how would I want people to talk with me? If you do this, you will undoubtedly be at least kind and graceful no matter what your substantive answer.
When I made the calls to women voters in my city, it was fun – I was lucky and my experiences were rather positive. Most of the women I got on the line or at home were very kind women who agreed with me and I only got two hang ups – one while I was mid-sentence (karma is a bitch lady) and one before I even said Is ____ available? That is fine but I marked that lady as a NOT HOME which means she will keep getting calls back until she is nice. In any case, I was one of “those” people as my husband reminded me until I experienced the phone calling myself. Now, I need to get a job in a restaurant so I can appreciate when I get bad service and want to tip nothing.
40 more days til E-day. You will get a lot of calls still – be NICE and remember to treat others and talk with them as you would want to be treated. Politics and elections are not going away and they may not change either AND get this: Congress exempted political calls and political robo calls from the DO NOT CALL REGISTRY. Yep- that is right, Congress left it out so their volunteers can call you (ha) so, please be nice because that volunteer could be your neighbor, your daughter or son’s classmate’s mother or father, or someone you would seek business from in the future. And if they are calling you, they know your name. Being nice to someone despite your frustrations with the process itself will get you some great karma. And if you want the process changed or the laws changed, we all know how a Bill becomes a law – YOU!
KIDS TICKETS ONLY $10 for the Sept. 27th through Oct. 4th performances! (Excludes all VIP seating. Kids 2-12. Limit 4 kids’ tickets per 1 Adult ticket. Additional fees apply.) Tickets on sale at www.ticketmaster.com/Dragons or by calling 1-800-745-3000. Tickets may also be purchased at the Denver Coliseum box office starting September 10th.
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SHOW BLURB: What is Dragons all about? Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey®Presents DRAGONS – a once in a millennium event that honors The Year of the Dragon. Circus performers from the farthest reaches of the earth have assembled for Ringling Bros.® Presents DRAGONS to showcase their astounding acts of bravery and astonishing athleticism. Ringmaster Johnathan Lee Iverson presides over this fantastical celebratory tournament of circus champions that brings together mystic dragon lore with authentic circus feats. DRAGONS is a never-before-seen blend of renowned spiritual and real life legends that can be found only at The Greatest Show On Earth®!
There are only 48 days before Super Tuesday, November 6, and honestly, ever since the heavy political campaigning started about 32 days ago, I have wanted to and shied away from posting about politics. Well, now that I have attended my first grassroots event and really started following both sides, I cannot hold back. You can see some of my pictures from the Grassroots event I attended- my first ever.
I saw President Obama speak in Golden, Colorado on September 13, 2012, and had a blast! It helped to be in good company, my friends from work, and of course, the other 10,000+ folks that were there too. The weather was gorgeous- crisp, sunny, clear and beautiful Colorado through and through. It was a good time and it was nice to see the President – I had never seen him before. I wish I was closer but all in all, great event and as usual, the President delivered. By the way, I wrote these four years ago and worth a read before you read my article on politics below: ARTICLE 1 on EXPECTATIONS and the CAMELOT ARTICLE. There are more if you look under my political archives too.
So, attending that event got me thinking about a post and while I could just write about the Grassroots event and what an amazing experience it was, I decided to write some political stuff. So, here goes – Politics 101 based on my experiences to get us through the next 48 days of what promises to be a very tight race:
1. Family — ah… family! Family should always be important and more important than politics but for some reason every four years, families are on the brink of war and alienation all over some random guys and gals whom you never met nor know personally. My parents and I now have a rule because it is just not worth it – don’t talk about it. It is not worth giving my dad another heart attack over or regretting something said later down the road. In the end, family is too important. They can vote for candidate X and you can vote for Candidate Y- in the end, it doesn’t matter. Want to know why? The Damn Electoral College – that’s why. (read on below my rants on The Electoral College)
2. Yes… as I was saying and as you already know, America, while it calls itself a democracy and invades and assists other countries to get voting rights and processes in place, is not a pure democracy. Why? Some founding fathers, centuries ago, thought it was a wise idea to set up something called an Electoral College and put it in the Constitution. SURVEY SAYS: WRONG! The Electoral College lends itself to a representational democracy NOT PURE DEMOCRACY so bigger, more represented states get to choose our President for us. The other side effects of the Electoral College: campaign financing that can blow your mind- it sure does blow the mind of developing nations. People dump millions, and billions are spent on campaigning by mainly 2 parties because again, the electoral college is such that no other parties can really EVER get ahead or get any electoral votes to win or make a difference. Third parties cannot get ahead and thus, we as a country really don’t either. Ask yourself- when was the last time SINCE YOU STARTED TO VOTE you really aligned 100% with one candidate or the other? Yeah… that’s what I thought. While the Electoral College, like some parts of our Constitution, was a great idea back then when the country was smaller, and brand spanking new, we need to evolve as a people and end that too but alas, special interest groups, PACs, and some of these States will probably not let that happen. But alas, I could devote an entire book on why we need to evolve past the Electoral College altogether.
3. Now, let’s focus on the true concerns of why we vote one way or another- is it the economy? Sure, it is a huge issue. When we are doing well, people tend to think things are going well so they vote for who they think is responsible. Wrong- it’s not just the President. It takes a bunch of people and sectors to make things tick in the economy. The President plays a small role in that. Social concerns worrying you? That is another reason people vote a certain way for President. The biggest ones this year appear to be: gay marriage rights (including benefits and marriage itself), pro-choice v. pro-life (which appears every election year and nothing really has changed), and this year add in a new one: Affordable Care Act (health care). All of these concerns seem to drive how people vote but it goes deeper for others. For some, it is about taxation- who will raise them, who will not, or who will give to social programs rather than defense and the like. Religion, like it or not, plays a role in how people vote too.
4. Another big concern that moves people to vote a certain way is the Supreme Court composition. As a lawyer, and lover of the Constitution (I used to teach Constitutional Law) this concerns me too. Currently, the composition of the court is 5-4. This means 5 of the 9 are presumed conservative and 4 are liberal. But, this really shouldn’t be the decisive issue because Justice Kennedy has been a swing vote (he was a Reagan appointee) and very recently, a very conservative Justice Roberts upheld the Affordable Health Care Act as Constitutional. Justice Roberts was a G.W. Bush appointee. So… things aren’t always what they seem. But the obvious concern for this election is Justice Ginsberg. Many thought she would have retired under President Obama’s first term but that did not happen. Supreme Court Justices are life appointments so, the worry is that in the next 4-8 years, this can be a huge swing for the court. If Justice Ginsberg retires or heaven forbid, something happens while she sits on the bench, then the President appoints, through a nomination process, a replacement and this can swing the court very conservative to a 6-3 court which can then have the effect of revisiting Roe v. Wade and of course, other cases as well. This is a valid concern and one that SHOULD impact voting but keep in mind, not all Justices vote the way their party or President wants them to which is a great thing about the Supreme Court and the independence of the SCOTUS.
5. Foreign policy and international opinion have mattered recently as well. The President is a figurehead and someone who does represent us in a global economy to other nations. So, it matters and more and more because we are losing our status as a super power. Other countries’ economies and educational systems are pulling ahead of ours. It matters how a President handles him or herself in a global situation – crisis or otherwise. If anything, the Presidency of G.W. Bush taught us that how a President is perceived overseas also impacts our nation’s perception and ultimately, our standing in the world. I lived overseas when the events of 9/11 occurred and subsequent to that as well. Trust me, it matters. So, while not as important to Americans as other issues this is also a consideration when voting. Recently, there were some uprisings in the Middle East and how our leaders react to these situations is quite telling- about them, their character, and ultimately how they will handle foreign affairs and domestic matters when in office. When a small faction of our population (let’s use LA as an example) riot, we do not, for example, bomb all of California as a lesson. We punish the wrong doers, the looters, the rioters. We try to stop the rioting, and use diplomacy along with force to end the root cause of the riots. While the U.S. does not need another war, it will be interesting to see how we handle the uprisings in the Middle East and around the world. The country has at its disposal several instruments of power – diplomatic, economic, informational, and of course military. It is the use of all of these and the balancing of all when used that determine whether we are successful in a global crisis or war OR not.
6. Military, Defense and Wars matter. This was a huge reason why people elected Barack Obama in 2008. They wanted to end wars especially Iraq which really seemed like an invasion without justification. Our economy, our people, can no longer stomach the loss of lives to foreign wars anymore. It’s cyclical really. We were isolationists in the 40s too and WWII was hard to enter but we were basically drawn out to enter. When you talk to people today, more and more want peace and diplomacy to the “seek, attack and destroy” mentality of yester-years. It does not mean we shrink our military to nothing but it also means we pull some of the funding towards rebuilding and taking care of our own here at home instead of doing countless thankless missions overseas where sadly, some nations may not even want us there. Sadly, some nations where we are present kill our troops even though our troops are there to help and nation build. This issue is near to dear to me and I am sure to a lot of military families. Ending wars, engaging in well thought-out conflicts only where we have to, and whenever possible, using diplomacy and other instruments of our national power to hopefully resolve issues.
8. Conversely, using social media to spread messages that others have strong views about (pro-life, gay marriage and religion), can have a negative effect too. Depending on how it’s handled, some not only risk losing followers, they also risk losing respect of those close to them. Social media, when used properly in politics, can be a powerful tool. Just look at Barack Obama’s campaign in 2008. He used social media in the right way to win. But, he had then and has now, a barrage of people running his campaign. You may not have people vetting your information or filtering what you say. So, engaging people on fundamental issues could really have a negative effect on your job, if social media is your job or promotes your company. And just like a job on the outside, bad publicity can have a negative impact on your earnings too.
9. And with that, I add one more thing about politics 101 to those who avoid politics like the plague and don’t want to talk about it- and I do mean this nicely: lighten up! Do not get upset every time you see a picture or a political post, and while you should certainly pick your battles, don’t shy away from it completely. Embrace the positive and the negative. After all, if you watch “Slutty Housewives of….” and can’t stomach a little political ad here and there (including the horribly negative ones), come on now! I agree that all politics need a make over in our country but this make-over can only come if we make it happen and write our Congressmen and Senators and maybe encourage the elimination of the Electoral College, which would also be a step in the proper direction.
10. Finally, there is a reason why elections are negative. Because we are a 2-party system, and less than 50% of Americans actually go out and vote, it begs the question that most people actually vote for the “lesser of the two evils.” Yes, that is how sad a 2-party system can be but that is what most Americans say. For example, “Why are you voting for GW Bush instead of Kerry?” RESPONSE: “I don’t like Kerry, and while GW Bush is a moron, Kerry is a bigger moron so I choose GW Bush.” WHAT?! That is how it works so in this game of building a house of cards, if the other guy can tear down your house, it’s simple really – he or she wins. That is why there are negative ads, and in social media, why people cut the other guy down. Plain and simple, most Americans who vote aren’t JUST voting for the guy they like and the reasons they like him, they are also voting for who they can tolerate the most leading their nation. That is why the other guy has to be painted in a negative light, or if he or she commits public gaffes, well then, not much negativity has to be done because the case is made for them. So, I understand why people are upset about negative ads or people on social media cutting down the other side but that is how politics truly works in a 2-party system. If you do not like negative ads, do something about it instead of complaining about it all the time. Like it or not, they are here to stay because of our current political climate, the 2-party system, and all the reasons why that exists.
And finally, to all those who despise this “most wonderful time of the year,” remember, this is once every four years and it is the only part of a NON-Pure democracy we can actually engage in, be heard and maybe, along the way, make some new friends out of … let’s hope not enemies. For me, it helps me understand those different than me. I may not agree with them but it helps me try to understand them or their background. Or, it just firms up how crazy they truly are. Ha! Either way, at the end of the day, and after November 6, we are all going to be EXACTLY THE SAME- Americans living our lives- sending our kids to school, going to work, paying our taxes, helping charities and doing community service, blogging away, attending our respective churches to pay homage to our respective Gods (or not), and saying the same pledge of allegiance: “one nation…. with liberty and justice for all.”
Disclaimer (small – very small – teeny tiny writing): This post is my opinion and it does not reflect on my employers or any of the positions I hold. I write this in my personal capacity as a blogger, a hobby I truly enjoy. And… finally, if you post a comment you believe should be posted but does not make the cut, remember, my blog is my own and a benevolent dictatorship not a representational democracy like the Electoral College. Thanks for understanding and go out there and vote- make a difference and get your friends to do the same. It does matter!
All of the play sets are connectible and can be played with together as a giant set. I love the imagination that can go into this and the suction pieces, but I have to say, we have already sucked some of them up in the vacuum cleaner. Then we had to remove them from the bucket. So, I would urge you to get a bag or a container for your kids to put the pieces in once they are done. As far as portability, the pieces even with the suction tend to fall off and land in the carpet or floor even when the kids are moving the play sets together or apart or to different rooms. After all, every room in the house is the kids’ room. 🙁