Do we ever look up anymore, or talk with one another? Or are our heads buried in our phones, smart devices, tablets, and readers?
Here I sit at the tire shop- my tires need replacing. I can’t replace just the one or two in trouble. I need to replace them all. The country song, “knee deep” is blaring on the radio. One guy is eating a meal from Whole Foods and on his smart phone at the same time! I’m engrossed in writing this blog post, another guy is watching movies and streaming Hulu with headphones on his smart phone. The guy across from me is watching all of us on our respective devices and is laughing. He’s an older gentleman and doesn’t understand what all this technology is about. He makes me uncomfortable because he is the only one looking for conversation, looking around, not reading or texting or streaming a movie. Why can’t he just look down? These are the thoughts in my head as I hum along to the song I recognize. I keep typing this post because I love the idea … do we ever look up? No, because it means we may need to interact. That seems uncomfortable to me.
When did we stop interacting with one another? When did we become so crazy and addicted to technology? I was mouthing the words to “knee deep,” and this provided him an opportunity to talk with me. A few awkward moments of conversation later, I look back down, and am relieved to be typing this post again. Typing, on my itty bitty magical handheld device. This provides me comfort, provides me with entertainment. This passes the time for me. I look up and no one is looking up or around save for that one gentleman who has no idea what the fuss is all about.
As I write this post, another guy has now sat down with his ultrabook and began working on it. That’s 7 out of 8 of us in this repair shop with our heads down, our eyes going bad from focusing on small writing and letters. That’s 7 out of 8 of us shut out from the world, but comfortable, happy, and completely complacent in not making awkward, unnecessary conversation with one another. Will we ever look up? I have no idea, but it is nice to have something to do while waiting for my car to get fixed.