My friend, Lori, is retiring her linky to “Perfect Moment Monday (PMM).” She is right, she should not feel obligated to find perfect moments. They should happen, and we either notice, or we don’t. Sometimes, we are so busy, we miss some too! These moments can happen at anytime, not just Mondays, or weekends, but always. We just have to notice them. I started looking back on the perfect moment posts I have written. I do not remember feeling obligated at all, but enjoyed every minute. To see all my PMM posts, look under category, “Perfect Moment,” and all the posts will appear. My favorite ones are, by far, these two PMM posts:
(1) Two Years and Growing – this one brought back such fond memories. Even as I write my PMM for this past weekend, I realize that three years have passed already since this post, and my little girl will change and grow daily. I love writing milestone posts about my sweet little ones because not only do I capture the memories, I feel that I share something meaningful with my readers too!
(2) Twinkling Little Stars– This one is near and dear to my heart since I now fly away once a month, and I cannot return home Saturday nights to see them or hear them sing. This particular post melts my heart because I was so lucky to capture these moments with my sweet little ones. Now that I frequently fly out of town for one of my jobs, I am sad that I cannot return home to experience this but I still hold them close to my heart.
Ah, where does the time go? Here I am writing about a perfect moment about this weekend. My little one’s milestone birthday weekend. She is now five years old! Hard to believe that she starts Kindergarten this fall, and will start a new journey in her young life. I wish I could freeze time for just a few years, and hold on longer to these moments, but alas, we have brought them into this world to let them go into it… to leave us, and do great things. Easier said than done, huh?
This past weekend’s perfect moment was not just the time we spent together, which was fabulous. It wasn’t the date night that hubby and I enjoyed seeing “The Mousetrap” at the Arvada Center. It wasn’t the birthday party itself, or just the Friday night fun we had with friends and one another. It was all of the above and the other little moments that we don’t always capture on camera or video. For example, the kids cuddling up with popcorn on the sofa and saying the funniest, cutest things about what their favorite thing this weekend was. My 5-year-old exclaimed, “I liked when I saw all my friends- nothing else.” Or, it was the moment when my 6-year old playing air guitar by herself, and laughing. She thought no one saw.
How many perfect moments can you notice? How many do you miss? I suspect we miss a lot more than we catch, but for me, all the moments in total made this weekend perfect. Monday will come too quick and off we will go our separate ways to work and school, but the memories of all these little moments, of all this shared time together really make life perfect! For me, they define #perfectmoment Monday. Lori, I will miss #perfectmoment Mondays, but thanks to you I will definitely keep noticing them. Thanks for the opportunity, and thanks for the memories.